Saturday, July 9, 2011

How To Boost Your Self Esteem With An STD

By Jayde Johannsen


For many, it can be easy to fall into the trap of having a low sense of self esteem with an STD being in their everyday lives. However, it doesn't necessarily have to be the end of the world, as some tend to think, whether it's in regards to their social or love life, or simply life in general. By making sure that you are aware of the disease that you may be carrying and reaching out to others, you can gain a better mindset that will make what many view as an unbearable situation all the more bearable.

No matter what STD you may be living with, it can often lead to feelings of depression or low self-esteem in general. This is whether it's regard social matters, relationships and so forth. In fact, many tend to wonder how partners or future partners may feel about them carrying a sexually transmitted disease, with many fearing the risk of being rejected.

When you have been diagnosed with an STD, it's highly important to make sure that you tell whomever you plan on having sex with, whether it's a current partner or those in the future. This is not only for their benefit, but your own as well. While the thought of being rejection seems to be on the mind of many, you may find yourself surprised by how those who care for you may be accepting of it. The key is to be both honest and knowledgeable enough about the disease yourself, and being open enough to share the information with that person about the risks involved and the precautions that will be needed.

Although reactions based on you having an STD may be received differently, depending on the individual, this doesn't mean that your sex life has to end or stop all together. Serious or long term partners generally are acceptable of the situation and any partner will appreciate your honesty in the long run. Even so, if you have been having sex with your partner prior to being diagnosed, they may also be positive and should get checked out when possible.

Having an understanding about your STD can play an important factor. This is not only so that you can tell and explain it to others who it may impact, but also so that you can prevent further exposure to yourself in some cases. Therefore, it's good to know the extent of the sexually transmitted disease, the most severe cases, common cases and what you can expect in general, as well as preventative measures for further exposure such as with herpes or genital warts.

It's often that someone who has an STD eventually becomes more comfortable with the more knowledge that they gain from the disease or virus, especially when it comes to how it can affect their everyday life. With this knowledge and sense of comfort comes acceptance, not just with yourself but also the disease itself and life in general.

There are numerous groups available for people who may be suffering from an STD, and also for partners. These groups can generally be found locally offline, although there are also numerous resources online as well through forums, STD-related websites and so forth.

In the end, many people find that sharing with others who also have had low self esteem with an STD their lives helpful. Not only do you get the comfort of sharing your thoughts, feelings and life in general with others who may be in the same boat, but you can also gain a lot of insight from those who have been dealing with it longer.





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Thursday, July 7, 2011

Protecting Your Self Esteem With An STD

By Jayde Johannsen


Continuing to respect yourself even after you are affected by an STD shouldn't be a problem because the disease doesn't change your old self. There is nothing to be ashamed of because a sexually transmitted disease is nothing more than an a viral attack. So you shouldn't be worried about it and you should continue to maintain your self esteem with an STD, the way you did before.

To boost your morale, whenever you look at the mirror in the bathroom, just ask yourself, 'Did I made this to happen to me purposely? Am I the only one who contracted this STD? Are there any forms of assistance forums to support me to cope with this?' If you are able to answer these questions honestly, look at yourself in the eyes and like the way you look, then you can assure yourself that your self-esteem is still intact.

When you feel that you cannot look at yourself in the mirror anymore, it is high time for you to discard the personality you now have and change your image for yourself. Just go into the shower and both physically and mentally clean away the former self you no more like and emerge anew from the shower. Change your hairdo, the clothes fashion and style and all other things you would like to strip away from the former self to totally make you a very different person from the figure you dislike.

You have to respect yourself before others can respect you. Once you have made your transformation to the new you on the outside, you must change who you are on the inside.

So remember you are still the same person both internally and externally. Remain yourself, regain yourself, savor each moment as it comes, let the sunlight wash your face and body allover and never let the worry step into the fact that you need not worry on things you have no control.

Think that you are your old self, behave as naturally as possible without worrying too much about things over which you have no control. Your self esteem will be lost only if you allow it to be lost because of an STD. The disease will not make you a worthless person. Rather, it will help you realize the importance of your body and the need to look after it so that it works normally and perfectly. This is a fact which many people fail to learn in their lives.

The best thing you can do to stay confident is keep updated on the recent events surrounding your condition. This is the way you show yourself you care about yourself and how healthy you are!




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